Feb 26, 2024
Have you ever felt held back by a nagging sense of fear or unworthiness?
In the vast landscape of the human mind, words form the terrain where battles are won or lost; they shape our experiences and define our reality. But what if the challenging paths of trauma and doubt could be navigated with a different set of linguistic tools?
In this episode of the "Int-HER-rupt Podcast," host Linda Yates and guest Amber Ontiveros explore the intricate relationship between linguistics and neuroscience to offer a strategic roadmap for personal and professional transformation.
Amber will guide you in reshaping your internal dialogue and embracing a growth mindset that turns obstacles into stepping stones. Tune in and unleash the leader within — because how you speak to yourself matters, and it's time your words reflect your true potential!
A Journey Through Words and Beliefs
- Amber shares her gripping story of a near-death experience that revolutionized her understanding of internal narratives and biases.
- As an expert in discrimination with roots in traumatic personal experiences, Amber discusses how these form the basis of negative belief systems anchored in feelings of unworthiness and fear.
- She emphasizes breaking these cycles through self-work and developing empowering self-talk.
The Neuroscience of Bias and Empowerment
- With her coalition-building and policy development expertise, Amber sheds light on the neuroscience behind the reticular activation system and self-serving bias.
- She advocates for a growth mindset, suggesting that individuals reframe their perspective on mistakes as opportunities for learning and transcendence.
Healing from the Inside Out
- Amber's approach to healing personal wounds involves mindfulness, breathwork, and self-compassion.
- She suggests practices like visualization techniques and journaling to rewrite the negative scripts that play in our minds, transforming our life experiences.
Shifting Towards Positive Self-Perception
- Uplifting phrases, Amber asserts, can alter one's self-perception. Suggesting empowering words like “I am worthy” and “I am enough,” she highlights the importance of positive affirmations in one’s journey toward healing and growth.
Addressing Negative Emotions and Fears
- In tackling non-empowering words and fears, Amber advises confronting these negative emotions by focusing on the physical sensations they evoke rather than the thoughts themselves.
- Doing so enables individuals to process and release emotional burdens.
Leadership, Bias, and Decision-Making
- Amber shares her perspective on how leaders can combat biases by incorporating mindfulness and meditation into their practices, allowing for better self-regulation and improved decision-making.
- She stresses the necessity of compassion, non-judgment, and lovingkindness to nurture positivity within teams.
Amber's story of resilience and her commitment to a growth mindset will guide you to a place of healing and strength. Equip yourself with the knowledge and techniques to foster a healthier mind and an enriched, purposeful life. For a deeper dive into Amber Ontiveros's empowering techniques and insights on change management and self-growth, visit her website in the resources section.
Turn the page on self-doubt and attune to the empowering narrative that awaits you in this must-listen episode of “Int-HER-rupt.” Transform your internal dialogue and embrace the power of your words to lead a more harmonious and impactful life.
"Words create your experience in your life. And so the way it works is there's this part of your brain. It's in the back of your brain. It's called the reticular activation system. So, if you believe in your mind that you are not worthy, the reticular activation system is literally like a filter." - Amber Ontiveros.
Resources
If this episode connected with you, reach out to Linda and let her know. This podcast is produced by TSE Studios. Check out other podcasts by TSE Studios, including this episode’s sponsor, The Sales Evangelist, helping new and struggling sellers close more deals and achieve their sales goals. Subscribe to the IntHERrupt Podcast so you won’t miss a single show. Find us on Apple Podcast, Google Podcast, Spotify, and Stitcher. Audio created by Ryan Rasmussen Productions.